Humility comes from an open and clean heart. Humility needs a good home to dwell in. When the mind is filled with negative feelings or biased ideas towards anyone, we cannot use humility. So we need to fill our mind with positive thoughts towards everyone. If we have negative thoughts towards anyone, we need to make an attempt to remove them. We need to tell ourselves that what we don't like about a person is just one particular aspect and not the person himself. In this way we will be able to change our own attitude and also will help the other person to bring about change.
~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.