There is victory for the person who opposes the weaknesses instead of the person. Instead of trying to win over a person who displays any negative qualities, one needs to oppose the negativity itself. The one who knows the art of doing this will never do anything to encourage the weakness in the other person but will provide all help to finish it fully. Since we are able to look at the weakness only and are trying to find it, we will be free from negative feelings of dislike and hatred. There would be a genuine feeling of love which in turn provides the right environment for the other person's growth.
~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.